- GinaMarie119 Said:
Thanks for the suggestion; I have an appointment with a learning specialist next week.
I had a final today, and I don't think I did very well. To study for the test, I did frequent self-testing along the way to reinforce what I was learning. Nevertheless, I found the test more difficult than most of my classmates (I asked them about the test after it was over.)
I think I'm headed for a C once again this class. I say "once again" because I am retaking this course after having received a C the last time, albeit several semester ago and with a different professor. I think it looks bad to an AdComm if you repeat a class and don't do better in it than before.
Why didn't I do better? This is a question I asked myself after every test. I did all the homework, read the material several times, made practice tests and flash cards, went to office hours (unlike most students, said the professor). The material was supposed to be the same, yet when studying for the class, it was as if I was learning the material for the first time. I could recall very little from the last time I took the course.
- Mary Renard Said:
So I do not think it does Nahani a service to point out that wanting it bad enough will make it happen. It's not enough.
Yes, I agree. Desire can fuel hard work, but hard work does not necessarily yield exceptional or even expected results. One can work hard and still fail.
- Mary Renard Said:
I think pathdr2b has a very good point in saying that there is no one formula for getting into med school. The "formula" is going to be different for each individual . . .
Nahani, I have been reading your recent posts with much concern and empathy. I honestly think that you have yourself completely tied up in knots; you are thrashing around sort of desperately hoping that there will be some solution. I think you would benefit from the services of a good career counselor or a therapist, someone who could help you reflect peaceably on what your innermost desires and fears are, and how you can address those.
- Mary Renard Said:
It's time to take a long, deep breath and get yourself to a place where you can consider all this without the pressure of another grade or another performance. If that means a longer path to your destination, it is so much better than the U-turns and wrong turns that seem part of your current experience.
I wish you all the best, my friend.
Mary