Hello you beautiful people,
After making account after account and writing a wall of text and deleting it soon after, I think I’m ready to ask for help. I think we’re suppose to start with a quick backstory right? Well here it is.
Im a 29yo male currently attending a CC and transferring to a four-year in the fall. This my 2nd attempt at college since the first one led me to dropping out after only one semester. And that’s really where my story gets funky. I dropped out at the height of the recession because work had dried up. My parents lost their jobs and the house soon after. At 50 and 60 years old, they were unsuccessful in finding new positions. With no income and homelessness rapidly approaching, I felt a responsibility to help my parents the best I can. I landed 3 part-time jobs and worked till I wanted to cry and then I kept working. In the morning I would work in retail, the afternoon commission based sales, and in the evening and night I cleaned sewage overflows in crawlspaces. All the money I made went to make sure my parents had a roof over their head and food in their belly. I traded my luxuries like housing and food for peace of mind. I chose the homeless life for six years and going weeks with only a few “meals” throughout. I love my parents so I would probably do it again in a heartbeat.
The moment I got a roof over my head and time to attend classes I signed up for community college. Unfortunately fate has a sense of humor and gave both my parents terminal cancer six moths apart. My mother lives in a assisted living facility and my father in a home in Mexico. My dad hides his suffering and lies to me thinking he’s shielding what I already know is coming our way. My mom can’t hide her pain.
I’m not sure if any of that was appropriate to post but now you are the only ones who know my story.
I work full-time and go to school full-time. I have one day off from everything and I use it to study a bit and go visit mom and dad. My Cg.p.a. is at a 3.44 and Sg.p.a. at a 3.50. I have no EC’s under my belt and no shadowing. I plan to quit work when I transfer and start my clinical experience and volunteer work there. I want to become a physician because I feel that too many hispanics (am hispanic) have a distrust of the U.S. health industry and had my parents placed more trust in our doctors and nurses, they could have possibly found these issues early on and helping me fill out my retirement plans instead of end of life options. I want to help grow trust in minority communities and really change that trend.
My question. Will the interview process be understanding of my story and the lack of EC’s and low GPA or should I really change things up here to increase my odds. I’ll let you know that I am kinda over sleeping in parking lots and stairways so quitting work is not an option I want to entertain.
Also I was told by a med school advisor from the local university that I wouldn’t be taken seriously with my Gen. Chem. and Calc classes taken at a CC. Is that true?
Thanks for any advice and any direction.
Love you all,
J.